Did you ever have this fear which you feel that you just simply just can’t overcome? And your girlfriend suggests an activity that has almost immediate association with it?
For example, if you really hate roller coasters and it is your biggest weakness in the amusement park. One fine day, your girlfriend just suggests that the both of you relax in the local amusement park and sit on the wildest roller coaster.
Well, it is not a time to panic. Here is a single trick that will help you. This trick had helped turn the lives of several guys around and opened them to several exhilarating experiences.
First of all, you need to find out what is your particular pleasure button. I am not referring to your physical body part but rather the way your body and mind is optimized when you are thinking about an immensely happy thought.
If you are going to say,”No, I don’t have a single happy thought.” That is not possible. That is bound to be something in our lives that makes us extremely happy at some time during our lives. Consolidate all the happy moments in your life together and just visually picture all of them in your mind. You have just created the ultimate pleasure button that is virtually a destructive weapon against any fear or phobia.
In our lives, there are times which we feel scared, bored and rejected. Therefore, if you do press the pleasure button, you can do anything with your girlfriend – even the things you hate. You can go on those horrid roller coaster rides and to endure all the boring shopping trips with ease.
Moreover, in life, after you are married to your partner, you might discover certain issues which you find are just too hard to bear. Use this pleasure button to your advantage. Many men usually use this method to calm themselves down and maintain their marriages this way.
Tap into your pleasure button by thinking about the memories. As you think about your pleasure button, you need to think about what real happiness actually means to you. Breathe slowly and close your eyes. When you feel a myriad of memories flow through your mind, notice how your body reacts to each individualistic change. If you feel your heart palpitating, that is the correct memory.
Lastly, in order to use your pleasure button effectively, you have to “insert” new memories from time to time. Using old memories all the time will result in a mundane effect. You have to craft your memories (the pleasure button) to be interesting for the ‘invincible’ and ‘powerful’ feeling to last forever.
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